Change Your Mindset and Instantly Become an Alpha Male
Written by Anthony Parkes on Attraction, Confidence - Follow him on Twitter.
It’s not about who you are, it’s about what you show.
How do you know what you should show? Two options here:
- You read advice on how to become an alpha male, alpha male actions, alpha male ways, etc… You fake being an alpha male.
- You actually become an alpha male, and the stuff shows because it’s natural.
It’s all about the opinion you have of yourself. If you think of yourself as a piece of crap, women will too. If you value yourself highly, women will too.
Negativity feeds more negativity, positivity does the same. If you think “I suck / I’m ugly / I’m not funny / I have no talent”, then you won’t impress any women because you feel you’re not worth a damn thing. You’ll look insecure. You’ll look beta male-ish.
Not very attractive.
If you think “I’m really cool / I’m handsome / I’m hot / I’m funny”, that’s the image you’re going to give of yourself. You’ll look confident. You’ll look alpha male-ish.
Very attractive.
Start to think positively of yourself, you’ll see, it’s viral. You’ll feel stronger, you’ll be stronger. Having a negative self-image only penalizes you.
A Quick Example: Dancing
The best example of this is in dancing. Many people don’t like how they dance. As a result, they don’t do full movements and just tap to the beat or dance sheepishly. Not attractive.
On the other hand, the not-so-good dancers who do movements fully, who just don’t care about what others think always look better. They attract other people. I see crappy Hip Hop dancers often, who attract lots of audience. They’ve built their confidence by learning a bunch of simple moves.
You are no better or no worst than any other guy out there. Social status is just a big ego battle. The guys with the biggest egos are always on top. Low self-esteem guys are easy preys. And with women, you’ll have to prove you’re worth it.
Say, So How Do You Do Become an Alpha Male?
Confidence breeds all other personality traits of attractive males when it comes down to women.
You have to break the negativity spiral and build the positivity spiral. The key to this is to not give a camel’s poo of what other people think of you.
Insecurity comes from always seeking social validation from your peers. The irony is that the more you do it, the more insecure you’ll look, and the more social validation you’ll seek, and it just goes on.
On the other hand, the more confident you look, the more women and admiration you’ll attract. Women and admiration make you even more confident, and so on and so forth.
Start by not giving a damn about what people think. If people don’t like something about you, their problem! They’re what’s wrong, not you. If a woman ditches you, her problem!
You get me. To instantly become an alpha male, just blow it! I want you to promise me one thing if you wish to become an alpha male:
Never, ever, give a hoot of what others think of you. And this, dear reader, is how to instantly become an alpha male.
Image by Felipe Morin.
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Great article Anthony, just re-read it.
When are you going to do some new ones? Its been a while now an you were going well.
Adam,
Thanks for the support, greatly appreciated ;) I have loads of free time this week, so I’m going to use that time to write more posts… This means:
Stay Tuned!
Anthony
Hey Anthony.
Just stumbled on your blog and on this great article.
This was really what i was looking for. Thanks to your article I believe that I am going to be able to improve a lot.
Thanks a lot and good job.
Regards,
Diogo
Diogo,
Thanks for the kind words, they’re appreciated believe me ;) I sure do hope you’ll improve, that’s what I’m here for!
Good Luck,
Anthony