The Pocket-sized Guide to Success with Women

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The Pocket-sized Guide to Success with Women

Let’s cut the crap.

How many times have you read about building confidence? Getting attention? How and when to kiss women? How to keep your girl? How to deal with a break-up? How to get your ex back? And the list goes on… What you need is the core ideas.

Are you remembering anything you’re reading? You can probably give the basics of the advice you read. But today, people are overwhelmed with tips that get them lost in an ocean of noise.

The purpose of this resource is to give you the key principles you need to know to be successful with women. No need to go into any unnecessary detail – what we want is a one-stop page with the vital knowledge in simple, bite-sized, and digestible chunks.

Let’s stay simple. Here we go.

How to Build Confidence

  1. Do something you’re good at.
  2. Start a new project.
  3. Go to the gym. If you feel great about your body, you’ll feel great about yourself.
  4. Face your fears. It’s the only way to master them.
  5. Express your feelings and emotions, don’t surpress.

How to Meet New Women

  1. Have the guts to go over and say “Hi!” – most guys don’t, and this shows confidence.
  2. Women in bars and clubs are usually looking for free drinks, not a boyfriend.
  3. Be different – “You look stunning, can I buy you a drink?” is boring.

How to Attract Women

  1. Body language matters – for projecting confidence and gauging attraction.
  2. Be confident – women like that.
  3. Tease her, I beg you!
  4. Have style: be classy and groomed.
  5. Flirt – That might be of some use…
  6. Leaders get the girls.
  7. Don’t be a passive guy. Always take action.
  8. Build tension, create anticipation.
  9. Your enemies are insecurity and neediness.
  10. Listen to her, and look into her eyes.

How to Kiss a Girl

  1. Slow down, boy!
  2. Remember to savor the kiss.
  3. Watch your breath dude!
  4. Make sure your lips aren’t dry.
  5. Keep your tongue on a leash.

How to Get your Ex Back

  1. Don’t get your hopes up.
  2. Get a life outside your relationship (and show you have one).
  3. Bet on what made her fall for you.

How to Get Over your Ex

  1. No contact. Ever.
  2. Focus on doing what you love.
  3. Write and share your story.
  4. Focus on making others happy.
  5. Start a new project.

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4 Comments, What's Yours?

  1. Ben Goulding says:
    July 11, 2009 at 11:51 am

    Nice post. A lot depends on the individual although “listen” is a must!

    Reply
    • Anthony Parkes says:
      July 11, 2009 at 12:36 pm

      Ben,
      What you say is very true, but here I wanted to keep things as simple as possible. Cut through what’s of little or no use. But you’re right, listening is a must.
      Thanks for the compliment ;)

  2. alex - unleash reality says:
    July 14, 2009 at 12:56 pm

    awwwsome starting place for guys looking to pull ;)

    really like it. solid. all the common bases covered.

    love the overall design and attitude of your site too man.

    keep in touch
    alex – unleash reality

    Reply
    • Anthony Parkes says:
      July 14, 2009 at 3:45 pm

      Hey Alex!
      Thanks for the flattering remark – I appreciate it a lot. That’s precisely what I wanted to do – a short article that covered all the basics.
      As you say, keep in touch ;)
      Anthony

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